As these words spill out of my heart after a juicy medi, anchor of essential oils and some deep breathing. This is your reminder, your gentle nudge, your inner voice whispering in your ear to remind you that you already have everything you need inside you. It may sound cliché, but I assure you it is truth. Your body already has everything it needs to thrive, your heart already speaks in the language of unconditional love if you allow it to flow through your veins and that soul of yours just simply knows. This is your permission slip to unapologetically own your own sovereignty, power and light.
This is your friendly reminder that everything you do, how you speak, show up, walk and talk effects everyone around you. As a collective consciousness how you show up in your life is connected to everyone in your life. That my friend is how powerful you are. Your vibration ripples in to the hearts of everyone you meet, that is why your choices, thoughts and inner world mirrors your outer world.
I know some days you might forget, you might dim your own light, dull your own sparkle, get in your own way and doubt yourself. Well that not only affects your own quantum leaps forward but also vibrates out to the people who are touched by you. Whether that be touched by you on social media who are inspired by you, close friends you revel in your magnificence, family who adore you or your business ecology who are co creating with you. How you show up in life in every moment matters. You matter. Always.
Intention is everything in every aspect of life and who you choose to surround yourself with and give your energy too is vital for your own wellbeing and your life journey. The reality of the life in front of you is a reflection of the choices you make, whether that be conscious or unconscious. Each time you eat, move, speak to yourself, and show up in the play of your life effects yourself, those around you and the collective consciousness.
So this is also your friendly prompt that your pain is not a permission slip to be an asshole. That one sentence etched deep in my heart these last few weeks (then re prompted by queen rebel Tara Bliss this week) and after many encounters this month where I allowed others actions to deeply affect me, trigger me, hurt me and distort the way I show up. But I also have a choice how I choose to move through that, which was to embody self-responsibility, personal power and sovereignty. As a matter of fact I am so grateful for these people showing me the subtle ways where I am out of alignment.
So here it is, from my inner rebel to yours. Your pain, your lack of self worth, your deepest insecurities are not a permission slip to be an asshole. Your low self esteem, absence of self love and the self limiting stories you tell yourself are not a permission slip to treat others in a way that you deep down feel towards yourself. Your wounding, sparseness of clarity in who you are or what you want is not a permission slip to not appreciate the beating hearts around you. The end.
As an individual you choose your permission fields and boundaries, what you choose to accept and what you don’t. Any acceptance of behaviour that isn’t in alignment with how you would show up or treat others is showing you where your worth is not celebrated, appreciated or cherished or a lack of your own, only you know which one.
You always have a choice, how you speak, if you show up for people, what you type on social media and how you communicate to others. Yet many aren’t consciously aware or taking self-responsibility for the fact that the words, actions or lack thereof can have an impact on others emotions and overall life. No matter what your story is, it does not give you permission to be unkind to anyone, including your own self.
So after having a few situations come to face, I can choose to feel let down and hurt, I can choose to be angry or upset OR I can choose to rise into my own power, set appropriate boundaries, communicate how it made me feel (even if they don’t receive it, understand or show empathy) and send them love and gratitude for showing me what I will and will not tolerate in my life, because it actually matters. How I feel matters. How you feel matters. How you make others feel matters.
You can intentionally choose your permission fields and what you allow in your life from a place of unconditional love and sovereignty. That is owning your power, knowing your worth and rather than allowing others energy, actions and choices to flow into you field, you are giving them permission to show up in their fullest potential, rise to meet you and see their own beauty. Whether they are ready to meet you there is a choice that is entirely up to them.
So here’s to the incredible humans in my life who reflect back at me my own magnificence, those who show up fully in themselves therefore for me and who courageously support me on my journey because they unconditionally support and celebrate their own journey in life.
Deep heartfelt gratitude to the 12month immersion of Rebels of Light I dived into during 2018 for reminding me that how I feel, show up, communicate and BE in this world matters. If exploring your own rebellion creates curiosity in your heart, you can check out my Ambassador link below for Rebels of Light 2.0 launching early March.
https://jessicacarey--tarabliss.thrivecart.com/rebels-of-light-2019/
So what do you choose?